
| Location | In Heaven |
| Age | 54 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 15/08/1947 |
| Date of Death | 11/06/2002 |
| Visitors | 3,954 since 13/07/2008 |
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ROD PASSED AWAY AGED 54 YEARS AFTER FIGHTING PROSTRATE AND BONE CANCER THAT TOOK THE USE OF HIS ARMS
AND LEGS. HE STARTED OFF HAVING PAINS IN HIS HIPS BUT WAS TOLD BY OUR GP THAT HE HAD A GROIN STRAIN.
AFTER REPEATED TRIPS FOR OVER A YEAR THEY FINALLY DID AN X-RAY, THAT AFTERNOON WE WERE TOLD HE HAD
TERMINAL BONE CANCER. HE HAD A SCAN TWO DAYS LATER THAT SHOWED HE HAD CANCER FROM HIS SCULL TO HIS
TOES.ROD COULD NOT HANDLE THE DIAGNOSIS AND BECAME VERY ANGRY TO THE ONE PERSON CLOSEST TO HIM!!!HE
WAS ONLY GIVEN SIX MONTHS TO LIVE BUT HIS SHEER ANGER GAVE HIM SIX YEARS. HIS STRENGTH AMAZED
EVERYONE. HE WOULD NOT ALLOW ANYONE TO GIVE HIM A TABLET OR INJECTION WITHOUT A BATTLE OF REASON.
THIS STRENGTH KEPT HIM GOING. SADLY THE CANCER PARALISED HIS NERVES TO HIS THROAT SO HE COULD NO
LONGER EAT OR DRINK. HE WENT INTO THE HOSPICE FOR PAIN RELIEF. THEY SAID HE WOULD NOT LAST THE
NIGHT. I PROMISED HIM I WOULD NOT LEAVE HIM. HE PROVED THEM WRONG AGAIN AS I SAT BY HIS BED
CONTINUALLY FOR ANOTHER TEN DAYS UNTIL HIS PASSING. NOW FREE FROM PAIN AND SAFE IN THE ARMS OF THE
ANGELS XXX ROD LEFT BEHIND JAN, STEPCHILDREN EMMA PAUL AND KATY. XXXX
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-Put This
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---♥♥---♥♥-- -profile If
---♥♥---♥♥-- -You Know
---♥♥---♥♥-- -Someone
----♥♥-♥♥--- -Who Died
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---♥♥---♥♥-- --You Love If there was a telephone in heaven
I know that it would ring all day
As i would ring and ring you
Just to ask if your ok
We could speak for hours and hours
And tell each other about our day
If only there was a telephone in heaven
I know that i would ring often your way
There as to be a line thats open
As heaven as just about all
There must be a telephone in heaven
As i just need to make one call
So love if you hear it ringing
Please pick up, as you know its me
I pray and i hope theres a telephone
So i can i ring you each day at three
Yes i wish theres a telephone in heaven
Its not much i ask for from god
Just so i can keep in touch
With my loved one, soul mate, my rod.
copyright Sharon Wheeler
--♥♥-----♥♥- --Very Much
❉:‧ °º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø*.:。✿*゚‘゚・✿.。.:*.
IF ONLY.
If Heaven Had A Phone
I cannot dial your number,
I can't get through to you,
I called the operator,
She did all that she could do.
There is no code for heaven,
I cannot place the call,
No numbers left to call,
I reckon I've tried them all.
If heaven had a phone,
I'd ring you every day,
If heaven had a phone,
There's things I want to say.
To tell you that I love you,
And miss you every day,
How much I prayed to god,
That he could let you stay.
If heaven had a phone,
I'd ring you every day,
If heaven had a phone,
I'd hear your voice, know you're okay,
I just want to speak to heaven,
Please do you have a direct line,
Operator says no number,
But your loved one is doing fine.
LOVE ALWAYS YOUR JAN XX
❉:‧ °º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø*.:。✿*゚‘゚・✿.。.:*.
Wedding band
A teardrop fell upon your picture
As i held it tight in my hand
My eyes were an ocean of tears
All im left with is a wedding band
There's no way to look to the future
Not when im haunted by my past
Ive pleaded i dont lose my mind
For i want your memorys to last
If i whispered again that i love you
Ive whispered it a thousand times
So instead of actions and words
Ive writen it in my rhymes
If i die tomorrow i will be happy
For i know i will see you again
And i will hold you forever more
Free us both of this hurting pain
Copyright© Sharon Wheeler
13th October 2009
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♰`*` ♰ Another Star Up In The Sky`*`Another Angel Way Up High`*`Another Light To Guide The Way`*`Another Angel Too Far Away. ♰`*`♰
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love Jude. X X
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*♥* SENDING ALL MY LOVE TO YOU *♥*
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REST IN PEACE ANGEL
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✿SWEET DREAMS
LOVE AS
ALWAYS
CLARE
x x x
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Last night at bedtime I looked out
to say goodnight to you
and out the window through the clouds
a star came shining through...
It sparkled and it twinkled
like a precious diamond stone
it looked as if it winked at me
and I felt less alone...
On earth we can see starlight
even if the star has gone
and though you are not with me
your light still does shine on...
So though I cannot kiss your face
or hug you oh so tight
I'll look to Heaven, see a star
and whisper your goodnight...
unknown
✣ 11TH OCTOBER 2009 ✣
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--’’♥(’’♥’’)~SUNDAY✣
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--’’♥(’’♥’’)~BLESSINGS✣
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--’’♥(’’♥’’)~ANGEL.✣
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--’’♥(’’♥’’)~YOU'RE✣
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--’’♥(’’♥’’)~ALWAYS✣
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--’’♥(’’♥’’)~IN✣
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--’’♥(’’♥’’)~MY✣
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--’’♥(’’♥’’)~THOUGHTS.✣
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--’’♥(’’♥’’)~GOD✣
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--’’♥(’’♥’’)~BLESS.✣
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✣LOVE JUDE.XX ✣
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*♥* On the Day You Died *♥*
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The world got colder on the day you died
Everything around was drab and dull
You brought such warmth to the world around
Your soul was kind and rare and beautiful.
My world just stopped on the day you died
I can't fathom life without you here
Why is it fate can bring bonds so deep,
And then fate can make life disappear?
I'll always remember the day you died
And that raw aching hole- you were gone
Time dulled the pain and I longed for it back
It seemed a betrayal to move on.
I wasn't prepared for the day you died
Your life slipped away much too soon
And even as time lets me laugh once again
A piece of my heart went with you.
AUTHOR:UNKNOWN
LOVE AS
ALWAYS
CLARE
x x x
9TH OCTOBER 2009
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JUST WANTED TO SEND YOU..............
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FROM JUDE. X X
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ღ♥ღ Our angel in the sky
ღ♥ღ Our thoughts are always with you
ღ♥ღ Our angel in the sky
ღ♥ღ We love you
ღ♥ღ And always miss you
ღ♥ღ And many a day we cry.
ღ♥ღ You are some one special
ღ♥ღ our angel in the sky
ღ♥ღ why did god have to take you
ღ♥ღ how many days we ask why.?
ღ♥ღ There maybe distance between us
ღ♥ღ The distance may be far
ღ♥ღ But distance can never take
ღ♥ღ The feelings we have inside.
ღ♥ღ Oh our sweet Angel
ღ♥ღ We look for you in the sky
ღ♥ღ Hoping we could just see you
ღ♥ღ And wishing that you are nearby.
ღ♥ღ We cherish all the memories
ღ♥ღ Of you our sweet angel
ღ♥ღ Now living in the sky.
copyright ~ Jo Dalton 2009
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Love as
Always
Clare
x x x
7TH OCTOBER 2009
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♥☆♥☆♥We WiLl MiSs YoU fOr EvEr. X☆♥☆♥
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TO THOSE WE LOVE
*♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥*
Since we parted, you have been sharing so much of us with those around you. The memories are so fresh and real. You hold on to us so tightly in your hearts - where we shall always be
Your concern has always been for us, but we wonder how you are doing. You will never know all of the prayers that have been prayed for you, the tears that have been shed over your grief and the concern that has been shown for you in a multitude of ways, but we find it so comforting to know you haven't been left alone.
Please know that we are not alone, either. The death that hurt you the most has given me the gift of eternal life. God's promises have been fulfilled in us. When we left you, God was there, waiting, just as He promised. We're surrounded by perfect love. Never let anyone tell you God doesn't exist. If you need to be mad at Him for awhile, that's okay; He can handle it. But never let hate, anger or bitterness fuel you emotions. Talk to Him and let him talk to you. Listen for Him in the voices of the people who love and care about you, and let His Word reassure you that we are doing just fine.
It is comforting to know that you hold us so close while struggling with the prospect of letting us go. You need to know that we will always be together. Eternity is not 'out there,' eternity is now! We have simply moved a little farther ahead of you.
Remember that God never wastes anything - especially love. The love that we shared on earth will be even greater in Heaven. For now, you must rest assured that we are safe in God's perfect love. We would like you to take some of the love you have for us and share it with those around you. You can never run out of love - the more you give away, the more you will have. And let others love you . you are worth loving.
Life is forever. Ours has changed in the twinkling of an eye while yours is changing day-by-day and minute-by-minute. Though your lives will never be the same, that does not mean that they cannot be filled with peace, joy and love. Always look to the future. Don't be afraid of tomorrow - God's already there. Be patient with yourselves. You will make some mistakes, and you will even find yourselves not thinking about 'us' from time to time. That's all right too. All of our needs are being met; you need to take care of you. Hold onto one another, help each other, give hope and love to all you meet.
Above all, be prepared to welcome others into your world of grief and mourning. You are being taught valuable lessons that will need to be passed along. Some will not have your strength, many will not have your faith, and most will feel they are all alone; but all will need the love and understanding only you will be able to give. Now, your pain is the only credential you need to minister to others. When you think of us, never think of us as being alone. Think of us smiling, laughing and enjoying all that god has prepared for us.
Finally, never believe you are alone. Do not focus on what you have lost, but look always at what you have left. You are surrounded by people who love you and care about you. Live with them, love with them, share with them and laugh with them. Make every day a celebration of life - a life that will never end. We will meet again, and until we do, know that we are very proud of you for never giving up.
We love you!
*FROM YOUR LOVED ONES IN HEAVEN*
Author Unknown
LOVE AS ALWAYS CLARE x x x
5TH OCTOBER 2009
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MISSING ~ YOU
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LOVE JUDE. X X
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